{"product_id":"you-cant-invite-someone-youre-mad-at","title":"You Can't Invite Someone You're Mad At: A Masterclass on What Your Anger Is Doing to Your Business","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eA two-hour masterclass for coaches, with Nathaniel Montgomery and Irina Konstantos.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eYour client cancels again and you write back \"no worries at all!\" and you had to go back and add the exclamation point.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eSomeone told you this sounds like exactly what they need. You drafted the follow-up. It's still sitting there, because to send it you'd have to sound warm, and you're not.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eA friend swore she had three people for you. You've stopped bringing it up, which you're calling being cool about it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eYour brother has known what you do since the day you started. He has never asked a question about it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eCoaches don't get to be angry at the people they want to help. So it goes underground and comes back wearing something else.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003ePeople can hear it anyway. They don't know what they're hearing. They just don't write back. And now you have one more piece of evidence for the case you've been building.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWrath is the loud one, and it's the one coaches catch in each other. The other two are harder to see from outside, and one of them is doing more damage than any email you almost sent.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eThe three it comes back as\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWrath.\u003c\/strong\u003e The one you have alone in the car, or in the message you typed and deleted. Rare, loud, and it scares you enough that you clamp down harder next time.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePassive aggression.\u003c\/strong\u003e The follow-up with something in it. The joke about your rates. The \"totally fine!\" that is doing a lot of work.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSilent treatment.\u003c\/strong\u003e You stop reaching out. It looks like restraint. It looks like not chasing, which is a thing you've heard is good. It's the one costing you the most and the one nobody will ever call you on, because the punishment is invisible to the person receiving it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat we'll do\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eTwo hours, live, small. Both of us in it the entire time.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSay the actual sentence.\u003c\/strong\u003e Not \"I've been feeling some resistance around outreach.\" The person's name and what they did.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eFind which of the three is yours.\u003c\/strong\u003e Most coaches run one. You'll know it inside of a minute and you'll want to argue about it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eRun a live one.\u003c\/strong\u003e You bring somebody real. A prospect who went dark, a friend who never asked, a client who keeps rescheduling. We work it in front of everyone.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWe will also end up on gremlins, because we always do. Yours keeps a file, every message nobody answered goes in it, and he has never once thrown the file out after somebody wrote back.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eYou walk out able to write to that person without it leaking.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat it feels like\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIf you are picturing two hours of sitting in a circle with your feelings, no. This is the lighthearted version. You will laugh at your own file, because it is funnier than you think once somebody else says it out loud, and it turns out to be very hard to keep being mad at a guy while you are laughing about him.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWho this is for\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eCoaches who are supposed to be the unattached one and are privately keeping score.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWho this isn't for\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eAnyone looking for anger management. Neither of us is a therapist. This is about what your anger is doing to your business.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eThe details\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eWhen:\u003c\/strong\u003e Friday, August 28. 2:00pm Eastern, 11:00am Arizona\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eHow long:\u003c\/strong\u003e 2 hours\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eWhere:\u003c\/strong\u003e Zoom, link sent that morning\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eRecording:\u003c\/strong\u003e Yes, sent to everyone who registers\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003chr\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eNathaniel Montgomery and Irina Konstantos run the Getting Coaching Clients Without Selling Your Soul group on Facebook. They're co-teaching the six-month Lighthearted Client Creation training right now.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003chr\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eTwo hours. 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